July 17, 2020
The Covid era updates: The really good news last week was, I could visit Kathie! I was limited to 1 hour visits (which I pushed to longer visits). I was also limited to only 2 visits that week. I don't have to talk through the whole "time limit," the Director knows what I am going to say, so I try to do the opposite and not speak of that. By the way, this has been my continuing theme when I deal with most people concerning Kathie. Do the opposite of what I feel. Staff(s) are used to emotional anger and lashing out, I try to give calm fact-related discussions (or arguments) to my points. I am Kathie's ultimate representative and responsible for whatever care, so I bear that burden whether I'm at her bedside or watching her on the Kath-cam. Because I had to make an appointment to visit, I had no idea if Kathie would be awake or asleep. The first visit she was asleep! So I continue prodding and speaking loudly and finally woke her up... in my care-opinion, yes this...