JULY 3, 2014



I was again able to bring Kathie home for a visit on June 14th. The hairstylist met us and we completed Kathie’s haircut and color at home. There are many complicated parts to this task and I’m blessed to be able to provide this service to Kathie. The added lift and bed make transfers more comfortable for both Kathie and I. The biggest reward is watching Kathie relax and fall asleep in the Jacuzzi tub afterward. The warm water jets almost lift her and allow her body to relax. We all like to refer to the “little things in life,” I watch for those moments knowing that Kathie is comfortable under my care.

Recently, I contacted our summer nanny, who was with us the first summer after our accident. She commented on that summer and the good memories. I have been grateful for the young ladies who worked each summer with the Girls and helped schedule great activities.

Summer time is Kathie’s favorite time of year and tomorrow Madison, Hannah and I will run in the Fun Run for the Fourth of July. Hannah will be in her last Parade with the Cheer Squad and she becomes a high school senior.

Jesus Calling, July 1. “… Through communing with Me, you transfer your heavy burdens to My strong shoulders. By gazing at Me, you gain My perspective on your life. This time alone with Me is essential for unscrambling your thoughts and smoothing out the day before you.”

Take care,
Dave


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  1. Carol LangJuly 4, 2014 at 10:55 AM

    That's great news! Kathie is so lucky to have you as her husband. You've been very faithful and it's a lesson for all of us.

    Carol Lang

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