October 9, 2014



I enjoy the simple daily readings of Jesus Calling and the first person way it is written. The readings each morning remind me who I serve and the relationship I’m in.

 “You have been on a long, uphill journey, and your energy is almost spent. Thought you have faltered at times, you have not let go of My hand…” Jesus Calling, October 9.

Last night Kathie was so relaxed in her bath she fell asleep while I was washing her hair. At one point I stopped the bathing task and just let her soak and sleep in the warm bath. Her right arm, which has contractions, relaxed and I thanked God for how peaceful she looked. Unfortunately, I had to finish the bathing process and she let me know that she wasn’t pleased about being woken up from such a peaceful sleep. Once she was settled back in her bed, I rubbed her neck and she quickly fell asleep. I kissed her and whispered “goodnight.”

This Saturday morning, I have Kathie scheduled for a home visit. I’m looking forward to this event. I haven’t had her home since August; because I’ve been coaching my last season of soccer for Hannah on Saturdays. Kathie will arrive in the morning and return after lunch.

The Jesus Calling reading continues: “Whenever you are tempted to grumble, come to Me and talk it out…” I do grumble and complain, whining to God many times, He is patient with me and has given me the strength to continue this “long, uphill journey” with Kathie. I have no idea why this journey has been laid out before us, we just keep at it. As a runner, I have a "hills" workout that I run once a week, there are times when I can only look down and put one foot in front of the other since looking up the whole hill is overwhelming.

Blessings,
Dave & Kathie


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  1. Sue DOctober 17, 2014 at 1:35 AM

    Thank you, Dave, for your running analogy. It makes life sounds much more manageable. Prayers to you and Kathie.

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