October 8, 2018

Kathie’s health has been good and she seems to have times of the day when she is very focused. I can even feel like we can communicate in a minor way. Over the years, we have tried a rudimentary one-blink yes, two blinks no with a variety of speech and communication specialists. A lack of consistency is the obstacle, but I keep asking and sometimes I get an answer.

 This morning I gave Kathie her hydro-tub bath and now we are sitting on the patio quietly enjoying a beautiful morning, the weather is very comfortable and she is looking at the trees and bushes nearby as a gentle breeze blows by.

 From Streams in the Desert, October 8: 

 Do not be anxious about anything.(Philippians 4:6)
Quite a few Christians live in a terrible state of anxiety, constantly fretting over the concerns of life. The secret of living in perfect peace amid the hectic pace of daily life is one well worth knowing. What good has worrying ever accomplished? It has never made anyone stronger, helped anyone do God's will, or provided for anyone a way of escape out of their anxiety or confusion. Worry only destroys the effectiveness of lives that would otherwise be useful and beautiful. Being restless and having worries and cares are absolutely forbidden by our Lord, who said, "So do not worry, saying, 'What shall we eat?' or 'What shall we drink?' or 'What shall we wear?'" (Matt 6:31). He does not mean that we are not to think ahead or that our life should never have a plan or pattern to it. He simply means that we are not to worry about these things.

Today, we are relaxed and not anxious.

Take care,
Dave & Kathie

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  1. Carol LangOctober 29, 2018 at 10:54 AM

    I'm sorry I missed this update. I hope the blinking communication takes off!

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